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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-03 02:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2252 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2252 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Billie Piper - Doctor Who/Secret Diary of a Call Girl]


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[Steam Powered Giraffe]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Kuroko no Basket]


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[Princess Tutu]


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[Kuroshitsuji]


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[Queer as Folk]


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[The Reward]


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[Spartacus: War of the Damned]


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[The Following]


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[Les dossiers du Professeur Bell]


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[Misfits]


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[Saint's Row The Third]


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[Penn and Teller]


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[Harry Potter]


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OP

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I know it's not her fault..which is why it's a REALLY stupid reason to hate her. It's mostly all about pure body image issues. When we were together I never felt "good enough" for him in regards to my looks. It's more of the "I'll never be this beautiful" issue.

It's really fucking dumb. I know.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Well if he made you feel like that you are so much better off without him. Plus if that's the subject of his tweets, seriously, unfollow him.

I have suffered all my life from feeling very plain, and having been compared to more beautiful people unfavourably on some occasions. Although certainly as I've got older I'm more able to think I'm OK, sometimes.
However I've never seen the point of blaming others for being beautiful, it's like blaming the sea for being wet. I might joke that I hate them for being perfect, but it's hardly their fault.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw, OP, her dislike of her is irrational, but it doesn't make you "stupid", it just goes to show how much this guy messed up with your self esteem. From what you say, you're better off withouth him. Please, unfollow him on twitter and focus on loving yourself and your body now that he and his negativity are not around anymore!
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Re: OP

[personal profile] cielo 2013-03-03 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
+1. why are you even reading his tweets in the first place? :( erase him from your life immediately!
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Re: OP

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-03-03 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Can I ask, OP, what is your body like and why do you not like it? From what you've said it sounds quite a bit like mine. I have a very small chest (36A I think) but bigger hips and ass. (I think I have a cute ass. lol.) It's definitely not a model's body, but I like it.

(My main issue is with acne. It's worse than it ever was when I was a teen, and I'm 22. wtf body)

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-03-04 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a little overweight (working on it) other wise I'm pretty pear shaped. thick thighs with a big butt. I have my mom's body which is basically (perfect for giving birth) as a doctor told her when she was trying to get pregnant.

I don't know my true breast size since I won't know until I;m at a healthy weight.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-03-04 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
I've gained some weight lately. I don't think I'm overweight (not really sure?) but I could stand to lose a few pounds lol.

Anyway yeah that sounds a bit like me...idk if I qualify as "pear-shaped" but I do remember my more recent ex telling me he liked women with nice legs/ass and cared more about that than bust...and my bust is definitely not my best feature.

I really like my body though? Honestly your ex sounds like a jerk, if he was telling you he wished you had bigger boobs/making you feel like you weren't "beautiful enough" for him. And also I know there are men out there who appreciate a pear-shaped body (and who care me about who you are than whether you look like a model, and will honestly think you are more beautiful than them anyway). :)

So basically: I think you are beautiful, OP, and good luck with your body issues. :)
Edited 2013-03-04 03:16 (UTC)
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Re: OP

[personal profile] silverau 2013-03-04 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think you're dumb. Irrational feelings happen sometimes, and you're already doing pretty well by recognizing when they're irrational. I don't get why other commenters are being so harsh on you; it's not like you're plotting revenge on her or anything like that.

I hope you feel better about yourself someday. And your ex sounds like an icky creep who you are much better off without. Hugs if you want them.