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I didn't see who you're hating on. But just a couple of months ago I would have jumped at the chance to comment in a thread bashing on fs usernames. There was someone whose username made me seethe and I would have loved to pick apart how fake I found them with someone else. Especially where they could see so they would be taken down a peg or 2. I tried ignoring them but it seemed like they were everywhere and everyone else loved them.

Well one night when I needed it most they were there for me when no one else was and I got to know them past the all in good fun comments they made before. In hindsight I don't think I found them irritatingly fake. I think they made me ashamed I wasn't a better person so I pretended no one could really be like that. Now I got my wish. They aren't around anymore. It doesn't feel good bro.

It seems like harmless fun and games online but we are real people and just because you get an impression of someone through your biased glasses doesn't mean you should take action against them based on that opinion. So if someone is annoying you let it go. Seriously. Stirring up shit about them will never make you feel good enough to be worth how bad you could make them feel. And maybe it seems nothing affects the person your angry with. That might even make you angrier. But you cant tell how they reall feel and its pretty ugly that you're even trying to hurt them. You don't want to be that guy OP. No matter how much you think you hate someone.

This is a good comment; I'm glad you posted this.

(Or +1, if you prefer.)

Thank you for sharing this.

(Also, seriously, if you really are frustrated about someone? Vent offline to a friend, or PM someone, you don't need to post that shit publicly. It's just gross.)

seconding the first anon's reply

also, if this is who I think it was, damn, I miss them too :(

Who is it?

I so want to agree with you but unfortunately I DID see who they were hating on. And the person they were hating on replied to the only secret I ever submitted with a gif that said "please kill yourself". Even if it hadn't been my secret, just posting that was wrong on too many levels to count and they can never redeem themselves in my eyes. And based on their behavior towards a lot of other people, I suspect I'm not alone.

Chard right? Only bully I know here.

I guess you weren't here when Paperclipchains was around, lol.

and chibadix and whatshername and actually there were quite a few others

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but chard is still around

(unless I'm not reading the OP right)

Yeah, she's the only one still around.

I...really don't get this characterization, or the hate surrounding her. I've never seen her tell anyone to kill themselves or even that they should die, so I doubt that's who the ayrt is talking about. She's often sarcastic and flippant, and often says things that make me roll my eyes. But I've also seen her engage in actual discussions and, at times, be very kind/give good advice to people who needed it. And I've seen her call out people who were being actual assholes.

I honestly think you've taken "annoying and trollish" to mean "bully."

Not once had Chard ever told anybody to kill themselves. Hate who you are going to hate, but do it for the right reasons (what they have actually said)

I'm sure it was another of her jokes but she did post a macro saying that back around the time school started when she was new here.

Then post a link. I'm pretty sure long time regulars would remember chard saying something to that effect if it's still getting drama now.

Pretty sure that's not the type of thing chardmonster would post.

I remember this! It was around the time school started and she was still really new here. I can't remember there ever being any chard hate before that.

I think you may have replied to the wrong comment.

So the appropriate response to a bully is to gang up on them anonymously?

I like how people are telling you this never happened as if chard is known for ever having any class when she tries to joke.

a link to back it up would help to get her defence squad to stop calling you a liar.

I'm sure they spent a very long time looking for that link. And being very frustrated.

I kinda have an inside track on this.

There have been people that told her to kill herself though.

But I'm not calling them a liar. They MIGHT be a liar. They might just have shit memory.

Yeah, obviously I got a dog in this fight, but that's how I know I'm right and you are wrong. (which is generally the state of things)

Have fun wasting hours if your convinced.

Edited 2013-03-06 01:06 (UTC)

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