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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-07 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2256 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2256 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls In School]


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[Rust and Bone]


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[My Mad Fat Diary]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Harvest Moon: A New Beginning]


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[American Horror Story Asylum]


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[Homestuck]


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[DC Comics]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 021 secrets from Secret Submission Post #322.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Best friend/bisexuality drama

(Anonymous) 2013-03-08 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
this

joke answer:

for bonus points, kiss the bi friend and tell them you're bi yourself, giving the finger all the while on your way out

Serious answer:

Tell them that reasonable!friend was right and that sexuality is fluid and that they're all being silly. And if you feel comfortable, tell them that you are bisexual yourself and they're genuinely offending/hurting you by pretending your orientation isn't real. Reaffirm your support to identified-as-a-lesbian!friend and reasonable!friend.

Re: Best friend/bisexuality drama

(Anonymous) 2013-03-08 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately, us kissing wouldn't really accomplish anything other than "prove" their point since we're both female and they're all lesbians who are convinced my friend is just a lesbian in denial.

My friend usually has no problems standing up to people (she generally is not one to back down from confrontation) although for whatever reason she isn't in this case, but I don't want her to feel like I'm trying to fight her battles for her, so I'm trying my best to stay somewhat out of it, but I have a feeling I'm gonna end up going off on them if things go much further.

They know I'm bi, but I'm sure they think I'm also in denial and will eventually realize that I must be a lesbian because of course gay and straight are the only two options in their minds. Part of me's not sure it's even worth it to attempt to tell them how I feel because anytime the subject of sexuality being fluid has come up in the past they've always just rolled their eyes and ignored it, but maybe I'd feel better if I at least tried to say something.