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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-07 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2256 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2256 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls In School]


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[Rust and Bone]


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[My Mad Fat Diary]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Harvest Moon: A New Beginning]


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[American Horror Story Asylum]


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[Homestuck]


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[DC Comics]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 021 secrets from Secret Submission Post #322.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Best friend/bisexuality drama

(Anonymous) 2013-03-08 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks.

You mentioning them being disrespectful actually confused me for a second and made me go back and reread at my original post because I didn't think I'd mentioned it, but that's actually something they've accused HER of being towards them for daring to have romantic feelings for a man. But you're right, they're being disrespectful to her (and by extension, me) by not even acknowledging that her feelings could possibly be real/valid.

I know I probably need to say something, even if just for my own peace of mind, but I have a feeling the whole thing is going to blow up and I'm not sure we'll even end up friends at the end of it (well, Now Questioning Friend and Reasonable Friend and I will, I'm sure, but I don't know about the others) and I'm just sort of dreading it. I guess I need to just do it, though. They probably aren't people I (or they) need as friends anyway, I guess, if they're going to act like this.
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Re: Best friend/bisexuality drama

[personal profile] citrinesunset 2013-03-08 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a tough situation, and it's possible you won't end up being able to preserve your friendships with everyone, even if you don't write these people off completely. That's why I think it's important to show loyalty to your questioning friend (and the reasonable one). If a rift does occur, whose friendship is most important to you?