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fandomsecrets2013-03-08 07:13 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-08 07:13 pm
[ SECRET POST #2257 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2257 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Jessica Alba]
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11. http://i56.tinypic.com/2ih02df.jpg
[porn... sort of. illustrated]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
13. [SPOILERS for A Song of Ice and Fire]
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14. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]
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15. [SPOILERS for Brave, Wreck-It Ralph]
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16. [SPOILERS for Persona 3]
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17. [WARNING for suicide, self harm]
[My Mad Fat Diary]
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18. [WARNING for rape]
[Far Cry 3]
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19. [WARNING for self harm and sexual abuse]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #322.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: (Trigger warning in the post, FYI)
1. They are unable to conceive as criticism as being anything other than a complete disregard and dismissal of the thing in question.
2. (And this one is the most important) Privilege. Not in the way you think, but I think people feel inherently guilty about privilege. Every time they are reminded about how their group subjugated or oppressed another group, they feel guilty. And then they feel angry, because they do not feel like they ever did anything to deserve feeling guilty, because they have never personally treated a black man, a woman, a lesbian, etc poorly. They feel marginalized and they feel as if they're being treated unfairly.
Which leads them to dismissing the idea of privilege altogether, because that way they do not feel at fault. Which is why straight cis white men tend to be the worst of the bunch, because they have the most privilege, and therefore the most to feel guilty over.
I think this applies to most privileged groups. And it's why I don't think sexists, racists, homophobes and so on are inherently bad people. They just don't know how to deal with the emotion they have, and they turned it into something really negative and bad.