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⌈ Secret Post #2257 ⌋

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[Jessica Alba]

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13. [SPOILERS for A Song of Ice and Fire]

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14. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]

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15. [SPOILERS for Brave, Wreck-It Ralph]

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17. [WARNING for suicide, self harm]

[My Mad Fat Diary]

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[Far Cry 3]

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19. [WARNING for self harm and sexual abuse]

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Could be about those cases where you find someone else hot but still wouldn't really want to have to have sex with them, because of reasons? If you're celibate, or if there are medical reasons why you don't want to have sex, or if you want to wait until your married, or whatever, then you might still feel that if you were to have sex, you could still feel drawn to certain people in a way that tells you that if you were to have sex, it could totally be with them if your body has any say in the matter.

That said "sexual attraction" for me isn't the way the people like that site described it at all. It's more that I like to be around some people, and I feel like I want to touch them a lot (usually I don't actually touch them, because boundaries). And (oversharing alert) my nether parts start feeling warm when I look at them or when I'm near them, although I don't always notice. That's pretty much it, for me. I'm sure it's different for different people, though.

da

yup, same for me

Thank you that does make some sense about your nether parts feeling warm but the rest of it still doesn't make sense to me

If you were celibate or it was for medical reasons or you wanted to wait until marriage then that does make sense to me because you would want to have sex you just wouldn't be doing it. Right?

But you can find someone hot without wanting to have sex with them right? And if you do want to have sex with them but you just aren't doing then obivously you wouldn't count as asexual I think.

DA

Yeah, being celibate, medical reasons, or waiting until marriage doesn't quality as asexual, because the want to have sex is there (or was there, but due to whatever condition or medication was altered), but it's not being acted upon. Where as with asexuality there's no desire to have sex in the first place.

And yeah, you can find people hot without wanting to screw them either. In my case, it's more of aesthetically pleasing (think like really great architecture or nicely composed art) than any romantic or sexual desire towards that person, but it's apparently different for other asexual folks.

Also, I don't quite get what you're trying to say with your last sentence. Could you rephrase it?

Okay thank you. That makes sense.

I just meant that if you DO want to have sex with someone but you aren't doing it for some reason then you don't count as asexual because asexuals don't want to to begin with. I think that's right anyway.

Yeah sounds right!

Do you have any other questions by the way?

No I think I get it now thank you!

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