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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-15 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2264 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2264 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Criminal Minds, Dharma & Greg]


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[Teen Wolf/Colton Haynes]


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[Alex and Emma Watson]


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[Anthony Bourdain and Guy Fieri]


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[World of Warcraft]


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[Kuroko no Basket]


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[Les Miserables]


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[Psycho Pass]


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[Journey Into Mystery]


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15. [SPOILERS for Buffy]



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16. [SPOILERS for Spartacus]
[WARNING for rape]



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17. [WARNING for child abuse]
http://oi46.tinypic.com/25akho2.jpg
[Kuroshitsuji; linked for (obvious) child abuse, animated]


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18. [WARNING for incest]

[Revolution]


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19. [WARNING for rape/abuse]

[Assassin's Creed 3]


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[personal profile] harp 2013-03-16 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
But the big difference is that if X tells Y politely why what they said is hurtful and doesn't name call or attempt to shame or call Y a bad person, then if Y says "you're an SJW!" anyone reading the thread will see that X is the reasonable one. And I know that makes it sound like it's a competition, but I mean that in the sense of someone reading is likely to learn from it, and, getting people educated sp that they want to play fairly is ultimate the goal.

Mostly, though, the arguments start because nobody likes being called out or made to look stupid/wrong/bad/less than in public (like in a forum). That's why they start trying to invalidate the other's arguments (calling you a ____ist or an SJW). I found that nine out of ten times, messaging someone privately about what they said and letting them know you're not trying to say they're a bad person just works.

The W in SJW comes when a person is more interested in scolding someone in public and getting ego points by "defeating" them in front of everyone.