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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-16 03:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2265 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2265 ⌋

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Re: slightly OT feminist questions

(Anonymous) 2013-03-17 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just going to assume the general idea is you shouldn't judge anyone for their actions that don't effect you. Which is a nice sentiment and all but everyone makes judgements... pretty much all the time.

And it sucks as a friend of those people. When you try to keep them out of harms way but they're "an adult and you can't tell them what to do." So they do it anyway.

If it comes back that something bad happened it can feel like it's your fault. (anything from sexual assault, to unwanted pregnancy, to an accident due to them being impaired.) Despite warning them. Why didn't I protect them? Why didn't I make them come with me instead of letting them go? Why can't I stop their seemingly destructive behavior?

Although relating to OPs secret, dating and sleeping with are different things. Dating doesn't always equal sleeping with. Being photographed with guys doesn't equal sleeping with either.