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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-16 03:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2265 ]


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Re: slightly OT feminist questions

(Anonymous) 2013-03-17 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
It has more to do with respecting that a woman has a right to choose how to express her sexuality for herself, and that she shouldn't be pressured or shamed for not conforming to the norms society expects of her than it does praising them.

Because slut shaming *is*, basically, shaming women for not fitting the norm, 'not calling guys studs' wouldn't help. Men still wouldn't be shamed for sleeping around [since that would only stop praising them for it], and women would be shamed, pressured, even bullied for it.

For example, someone who has constant one night stands is an adult and has the right to make their own choices. That doesn't mean you have to agree with those choices, just that you have to respect they have the right to decide if they want to do that for themselves.

At least, that's how it's ended up being in the circles I hang out in.