[ SECRET POST #2267 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2267 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Asexuality

[(Anonymous)]

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I'm asexual. If I were in a relationship with someone who wasn't and I loved them, and they wanted sex, they would get sex, provided I wasn't completely exhausted or in immense pain or something. Not because I was sexually attracted to them, but because I loved them and would want to do everything in my power to make them happy (because that would make me happy too!). I wouldn't feel like I'm being used as a sex doll at all.

It's perfectly possible as long as both people in the relationship are open and communicative about things. Some people don't mind doing things they don't really care about if it makes someone they care about happy. The anon above who compared it to going to a partner's business party (that one is not really interested in) is exactly right, it's like that.

Of course, I'm only one asexual and I'm only speaking for myself.

Re: Asexuality

[(Anonymous)]

"The anon above who compared it to going to a partner's business party (that one is not really interested in) is exactly right, it's like that."

...this doesn't sound terribly romantic.

I guess I don't understand why a nonace person would want a sexual relationship with someone who approaches sex as a chore--a chore done out of love, but still a chore.

I mean obviously people deal with it but it sounds dismal.

Re: Asexuality

[(Anonymous)]

Because the happiness of making my partner happy >>>>> the "pain" of doing a "chore". (I find sex neither painful or a chore. I won't go out of my way to get it because I simply don't care, but having sex with my partner would in no way inconvenience me.)

The comparison to the business party works because it too is something I don't care about, but will be happy to do for the happiness of my partner.

I don't understand why it's such a difficult concept to understand. Some people are perfectly happy just making other people happy.