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fandomsecrets2013-03-24 03:34 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-24 03:34 pm
[ SECRET POST #2273 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2273 ⌋
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Re: "Erotic resistance"
(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)Fantasizing about a loss of control in a society that teaches women that "good girls" don't desire sex is entirely different than the reality of being violently attacked. What goes on in the privacy of a woman's mind or in the context of a consensually-negotiated kink scene is completely unrelated to sexual activity being forced upon an unwilling person. One does not justify the other, or warrant having the other not "taken seriously."
How about we teach society not to assume that girls "want it" by default? Our culture thinks about rape in a completely different way than it thinks about other crimes. If you get mugged, no one starts interrogating you about what you were wearing to tempt the mugger or accuses you of giving him a gift and then changing your mind. People don't mourn the loss of the promising future of the guy who was convicted of knocking over a convenience store. Those aren't conversations our society has, the way it has them about rape.
Re: "Erotic resistance"