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[ SECRET POST #248 ]

⌈ Secret Post #248 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, [ 1 2 3 ] not!secrets, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 2 3 ] personal attacks, [ 1 ] attempt at parody, [ 1 ] repeat.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Tuesday, September 11th, 2007.
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Ummm, I'm not dictating a large part of someone's identity in this culture and telling them they need to do certain things to be considered something. So yes, that is why I am bothered.

PS you smell.

I'm sorry the internet has offended your delicate sensibilities.

And, yes. Yes, I do smell. I smell like spearmint.

lol internet tough guy.

Betta recanaaaaize.

Lol if you ever voice dissent or argue on the internet you are actually secretly crying behind the monitor and are sensitive and sad

Pretty much. Kind of like if you present an opinion on a controversial subject that doesn't quite fit in with the norm, you're a bigot and ignorant.

I think it's a fair trade.

Nah, I haven't seen myself call you ignorant or a bigot. I kind of just stated my opinion back. I forgot your opinion shield was on! Meaning that if you share your opinion, and I share one countering yours, it means I'm not letting you have yours and think you're a bigot and horrible and should die.

PS, your opinion IS the norm outside of LJ. In fact the lesbian community is pretty hateful and psycho about that stuff GRR YOU FAKE BI GRR ARE YOU BUTCH OR FEMME GRRR YOUVE SLEPT WITH MEN BEFORE GRR GRRR

Which is kind of why they are considered to be hateful douches by a lot of people. And why the media had to be retarded and create the image of the 'fake' lesbian (ie perfect pretty only doing it for attention) and a 'real' lesbian (mean ugly bitch).

Not you. I happened to get nosy and look at a few other comments on the secret.

And honestly? I don't really care if it's not the norm outside of LJ. Different opinions are peachy, I can watch people get all butthurt if I don't agree with theirs. But what astounds me is how people who slightly or fully agree with a secret are often put on the chopping block. Got beef with a secret, take it up with the OP, even though no one's opinion is going to be changed in the end.

Some people definitely get too touchy. I am always up for debate, so I will state my opinion. But if someone thinks that you need experience to back up or be sure of your sexuality, while I generally disagree with the sentiment I won't really attack them too harshly. Why? Because in certain circumstances (as people are, you know, a case by case subject) there ARE girls/guys that are just expirementing but really don't plan to live the lifestyle of the behaviour they've wrongfully 'labeled' themselves as. And in the end, it's up to the people outside whether that is okay with them or not.

Certain secrets, when attacking a denomination of people or making generalizations, however, are bound to ensure backlash from anyone who agrees with that.

People just like their opinions heard on the internet. It makes them feel special, or they like to see who has common beliefs/interests. B) And some people generally like to hear different opinions.

The OP's secret and generalization/assumption about the antisocial thing was stupid. But anyone who just agrees with an aspect of the secret and generally states their opinion doesn't apply to EVERY case shouldn't really get people attacking them.

But this is sexuality. It's taboo, overrated, and overly controversial. You'll always get anger flung at you for anything you say D:

It seriously sounds like you're the butthurt one here.

I'm just so used to people disagreeing with the IDEA of me (I like girls. So I'm a lesbian. Always have liked girls. One day I might like a man though D: WILL THAT MEAN I WAS FAKING THE ENTIRE TIME?), that I never get hurt when people disagree with my opinion. I get confused when people feel attacked if their opinion is unpopular or disagreed with?

I mean, I probably have the most unpopular opinions ever on the age of consent. But I never feel attacked because I understand that it's a sensitive subject for people. Idk. I feel bad if I offended anyone though D:

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