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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-03 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2283 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2283 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-04-03 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
OP did ask and he said no. End of story.

If someone wants to give one of their SO's interests a try, that's fine. If they don't because it's something they have an aversion to, that's fine too. It should never be expected of them as you've implied it should.
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[personal profile] otakugal15 2013-04-04 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
This. I don't always like my SO's interests and he doesn't always like mine. We either compromise or just leave it alone.

He's tried getting me into 40k, but I have zero interest in it and he understands and leaves me alone about it. I still listen to him though. I like ponies and Monster High. He watches them with me, but he's not especially interested in them. And that's fine. But he'll listen to me ramble.

But we still have plenty we DO like together. That, and respecting each others interests we don't necessarily like, is what fucking counts. HAVING to like EVERYTHING or watch something we hate puts a strain on things.
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[personal profile] othellia 2013-04-04 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
Except for, from what the OP said, they don't have many things that they like/watch together? And it's not like he has a total disinterest in the source material since he likes the movie; he just doesn't like the fact that it's a cartoon.

I agree that couples shouldn't have to do everything together or love all the same things together, but it seems like OP and her boyfriend are having the opposite problem, what with the boyfriend really happy that they're watching this movie together and OP scared to say otherwise (which, as other people have said, isn't very healthy either).