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I was informed today that things were not going to work because he thought that he'd have converted me to his religion by now and changed my mind about marriage and kids.

I told him from DAY FUCKING ONE that although I didn't have a problem with him being a Christian, it was not something I was interested in for myself and going to church with him was not something I was going to do, and also that I wasn't looking for anything serious and that I wasn't interested in marriage anytime soon (if ever) and kids were something I absolutely, positively did not want and was 1000% sure I would never change my mind about (and if anyone thinks of telling me that I still might change my mind, please don't. I've heard it all before, and no. No, I will not. I guaran-fucking-tee it. It WILL. NOT. HAPPEN.) and that if he had a problem with any of that, we shouldn't go out. 'Oh, no, that's all fine,' he said.

Now it's basically, 'I thought I could completely change who you are, but since that didn't happen, I'm breaking up with you.' and part of me is so. fucking. angry. Because I've wanted to break up with him for a long time now but was afraid of hurting him, and he's been such a massive dickbag during this that I'm kicking myself for ever worrying about his feelings.

And on top of everything he had to throw in 'and just so you know, I never thought you were good looking anyway.' WTF, asshole. Although I'm not super confident about my looks I'm at least okay with them most of the time, and my friends have been asking since the beginning why I was with him because according to them I'm much more attractive than him (I honestly don't think I am attractive so I'm not trying to brag or whatever, that's just what I've been told) but now I'm feeling really ugly. I wish I would've at least thrown in a dig at his tiny penis (which would've been 100% true).

I know I'm being incredibly petty and immature about this whole situation and I need to just get over it but that's much easier said than done and meh.

Wait wait, in what circumstance are you being petty about this? That is basically the shittiest way to treat someone EVER. He wanted to change your beliefs, your desires for you life... and because it didn't work quick enough he dumped you? WTF.

Good riddance I say, what a douchebag.

Wow, what an asshole! I'd be pissed off too. But at least you can be greatful that this dickbag is out of your life now.

I wouldn't trust what scum like that says about your looks. I'm sure you're perfectly attractive. Why would he have even gone out with you in the first place if he didn't like your looks and wanted you to completely change your personality? What a liar.

No matter how clear you are about your opinion on something and how it isn't going to change, there'll probably always be someone who will think your mind can change. I'm sorry you met one of those people, anon, and invested so much in them. :(

At least you're rid of him now, and can find someone who will actually respect your feelings the way you did your best to respect his.

I believe congratulations are in order.

You are so much better off without him.

As for feeling ugly, I'm sure you're not. Get your hair done, get some new outfits, paint your nails and write a story about how tiny his penis is if you are so inclined. Do whatever you need to regain your confidence and let go of the regrets.

Wow, he is a humongous asshole. The fact that he thought he could change you and then insulted you right after dumping you proves it. You are SO much better off without him.

I'm sorry he treated you like that and didn't respect you or want you want out of life, but it sounds like it's best that you two ended things now.

Holy shit what a douche. "I thought I could change you with the power of religion" hahaha no.

He sounds super insecure if he couldn't respect your opinions, and had to throw in that last word about your looks. Good fucking riddance.

I don't think you're actually being petty. You're allowed to be pissed off, and it sounds like he's being a grade A douche about the whole thing.

What a veritable bag of dicks. Gonna say what everyone else said, you're better off.
And I'd trust your friends' opinion over his about your looks. I'm sure you're a lot hotter than him and it made him insecure.

Your comment reminded me of my favorite Bag of Dicks picture (NWS, gory?).

That's exactly the pic I was thinking of haha

What a self-righteous, lying little shitbag. You're not being petty, he behaved like a gigantic dick and basically did everything he could to make sure you didn't leave him unscathed. He's an asshole, using every excuse in the How to Be an Asshole 101 Manual to fuck with your head.

You're completely entitled to be angry about this, but I for one am glad you're not tied to his sorry ass anymore.

Um he found you attractive enough to attempt to convert you and convince you to want kids so he could spend the rest of his life with you. Don't know if that helps but there you go!

... that's like the farthest thing ever from petty and immature. Your ex BF on the other hand, sounds like an epic doucecraft carrier.

Wow, what a douchebag! I'm so sorry you were treated like that. E-hugs available if you want them.

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