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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-03 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2283 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2283 ⌋

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Re: OP HERE

(Anonymous) 2013-04-04 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
except through this behaviour you are probably creating a far bigger potential fall-out and hurt feelings than if you were honest.

If you would've been honest from the start, there may have been some hurt feelings (if at all, most people don't actually feel hurt when their gifts are rejected for reasonable reasons) but they probably would not have been major or long lasting unless this is part of a bigger pattern. Now however, you have created the situation where you are constantly lying to your boyfriend about your enjoyment every time you do this thing together. Your boyfriend who thinks he is doing you a favour. It actually feels far more hurtful that someone way lying to you over a long period of time rather than that one moment of rejection because it brings up the thing what other things are you potentially lying about that he thinks you enjoy.