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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-03 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2283 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2283 ⌋

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Re: OP HERE

(Anonymous) 2013-04-04 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
just tell

a) your boyfriend, that you've grown tired of the movie

b) your mom, that you don't like the pineapple-chocolate pies as much as you did before

and, for similar future situations, don't lie about them! the initial leap of faith is going to be hard, but like everyone said, it'll be easier to cut this in the bud than to strangle the whole plant.

also, i'm trying to think of a tactful way to say this, but consider taking a good, hard look at your thought processes: your fear of how people will react if you say no or you seem "ungrateful" is way worse than how reasonable, sane people react in real life. seriously, even if it "hurts their feelings", i promise you that if they are emotionally healthy people they will get over it and love you anyway. for reals, op. only mentally/unbalanced people would rage over something like "wow, thanks, i appreciate the gesture, but I actually prefer more [etc], but thank you so much for thinking of me, it's very sweet! *hugs*" and stop wanting to be your friend/boyfriend/family member/etc.

i am saying this because i used to be this way too, op, and you don't realize how disconnected your fears and expectations of possible social fallouts are until you learn to distance yourself from them and just look at reality objectively