Video games are something I share with my husband, and despite being relatively new parents, we can find time. We usually play in the evenings, and tend to stick to MMOs and shooters that we can pick up and drop freely.

JRPGs and other games that you have to sink dozens of hours into aren't really feasible, but there are definitely options out there. We stick to multiplayer games and make it a together thing, and thus we can usually find time for at least a couple hours every night.

You can try checking the website Co-Optimus for lists of games that are multiplayer.