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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-04 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2284 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-04-04 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
You realize what you suggested is *also abuse*. That level of emotional manipulation is very abusive in and of itself.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-04 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
So a, say, terminally ill parent who can't tend for themselves, should not tell it to his adult or almost adult children, when they want to travel to other side of the world, because that would be abuse? True, they should just die in silence, and if their kids are affected, they are no longer there to care right?
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[personal profile] bigredhug 2013-04-05 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
I think we're talking more like My Sister's Keeper type of abuse, here. I don't know that it's automatically abuse-level coercion for Gothel to nonviolently admit she needs Rapunzel to survive, but it could get to that level very very quickly.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2013-04-05 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's true, it could, but the first step of just admitting it isn't necessarily. Plus, I don't think Rapunzel would object to just swinging by her mother's house every so often whatever the necessary time period was to youthify her up. Yeah, some people might, but that's getting into tricky stuff that's hard to finagle even IRL.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2013-04-05 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Oh c'mon, I don't think asking your daughter to help you not die would be abuse. Purposely trying to manipulate Rapunzel into staying with her and keeping everything the same and not having her own life by saying "I'll die without you and NOPE there's nothing else we can do" and refusing to change her ways or look for a compromise or a better option -- that would be abusive, but just laying the facts out on the table isn't.

What should she do, just let herself die? True, that would be a feasible option, especially given that she's already really old, but I couldn't exactly blame someone for not wanting to take it.