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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-04 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2284 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2284 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-04-05 01:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Police, despite what tv likes to tell us, are no help

Yeah. It isn't domestic abuse, it is domestic arguments. Private matter, none of their business. Up to the couple to resolve. Up to the Husband to sort out, never the woman involved (which manages to be an equal opportunities hindrance on the rare occasions it is female-on-male abuse too).

Yeah, all new police officers and deputies are supposed to be trained, and get additional training to say that attitude is wrong. But ongoing training isn't a budget priority these days, so top up training almost never happens. Defying the "politically correct" is seen as a good thing and a badge of honor. Good old peer pressure happens when new meat officer is taken under the wing of grizzled old hand to tell them "all the things they didn't teach you at the academy, and what to leave alone". And of course the good old Blue Wall of Silence, where is one bigot in uniform decides to let the abuser off the hook, the rest will aid and abet in public and reserve any criticism for inside the locker room.

Plus misogyny is rampant throughout American culture right now for some reason.