[ SECRET POST #2286 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2286 ⌋

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Comments

[poisonenvy]

I just can't help but hearing it as anything other than "Women aren't as threatening as men/women count less as men/women can't actually be really into women, so there's no reason for me to be threatened by this." I get the whole "Well, she can offer you things I can't" aspect of things, in an abstract kind of way, but you very, very rarely hear "I'd be pissed if my boyfriend cheated on me with another woman, but I wouldn't mind if he cheated on me with a dude," whereas I've heard a ton of guys say the opposite.

I'm totally all for open relationships, by the way. I couldn't ever do it (I have trust issues and I'm kind of insecure. I try very hard not to let it enter into my relationships, and think I do a fairly good job most of the time, but I don't think I could if I was like "Oh, my SO is sleeping with this other person. WHAT IF THEY LIKE HER/HIM MORE THAN ME?!"), but I understand that there's a lot of people who can't do monogomy either.

[(Anonymous)]

Allow me to be the first then. Before my husband and I decided we were poly, I straight up told him: "I don't care if you sleep with men, at all. But right now, I have some trust issues concerning other women, so I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't sleep with them."

He agreed, and asked me to only sleep with men for a while. I got over my issues, he got over his, and we decided we were comfortable sleeping with both genders.