[ SECRET POST #2291 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2291 ⌋

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[raaj]

Not the anon but I think it's mostly about women being pressured that they HAVE to be so good to "deserve" the guy. This can happen when there are two male characters for a female character to choose between too, but from what I've seen in fandom it happens a lot more with women, both in love triangles being set up in canon to be a man torn between two women, and in how vehement fandom can get over tearing the other female love interest down. This is why it comes off as misogynistic, because it's applied more to women. It can get really weird too, like when you have two women who are perfectly decent people, if having a normal amount of their own flaws--why is Harry/Ginny bad just because Ginny's "good" and not "AMAZING"? She doesn't deserve to be with the guy who loves her? I could understand "I don't like how they interact" but if I see "she doesn't deserve him" I am hoping that is followed up by something big that would impact the relationship (a character vice like dishonesty, cruelty, etc.), not "she doesn't deserve him because she's not as cool as this other girl".