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fandomsecrets2013-04-16 06:41 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-04-16 06:41 pm
[ SECRET POST #2296 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2296 ⌋
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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 056 secrets from Secret Submission Post #328.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Not OP
I have a friend, who while he doesn't whine, he just doesn't take care of himself, and is barely motivated. My friends have tried to help him with various things, including one friend paying his deposit on their apartment (thankfully he pays rent on time). However, it never works and, if anything, pushes back.
He's an adult, OP's person is an adult. Even if mental illness is involved, it's honestly not a friend's responsibility to do everything for them, especially if they've tried in the past to no avail. You can't run your life around trying to help someone if they don't want to be helped. You should give it an effort, but really, if they're an adult they are their own responsibility.