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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-20 03:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2300 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-04-21 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'm in the same situation. Only the favorite child my mother miscarried when she was 8 month's along. I hear 'well if your brother had lived' every time I do something she doesn't like or mess up. He's perfect in her eyes. And it's 'my fault' she miscarried. Apparently, my two year old self was so horrible I killed my unborn brother.

I think if someone showed up and asked for my life in trade for his, she'd take them up on it without a second thought.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-21 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, OP. Your mom sounds like a really toxic presence in your life.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-21 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

I know that misscarrying can be awful for a woman but taking it out on a child that can't understand is just wrong. and guilt-tripping someone for things they did before they had fully permanent memory-ability (idk what to call it but most people can't remember stuff they did at two without hypnosis I believe)is flat out psychological abuse.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-21 09:01 am (UTC)(link)
((((hugs))))

I'm so sorry, anon. I hope you can get out of there soon - and I know it's easy to believe her because she's your mother, but remember: your brother would have been his own person, NOT this fairy-tale perfect child. NOBODY could ever be that perfect and never ever do something stupid or disappointing to their parent(s).

Your mother needs help. But guess what? So do you. What's more, you DESERVE to be helped (and loved and happy). Don't be afraid to look for a way out. Save yourself.