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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-09-15 05:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #253 ]


⌈ Secret Post #253 ⌋

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Wow, people are FAILING at secrets this time around...

*Have been informed that this secret was a rather obvious/recognizable attack at someone.

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[identity profile] la-vamp.livejournal.com 2007-09-16 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I already have people that care about me, but they're just friends or they're my family. Why do I need anything more? Relationships don't last forever. My family will always be there for me no matter what. Most of my friendships last pretty long. My previous relationships, even when I was dating for companionship during my younger days, never lasted longer than a year. I'd rather not pout and whine after a relationship falls apart. I really sorry. I know it sounds harsh, but this is just the way I feel. No hard feelings. =/

[identity profile] roko-epsilon.livejournal.com 2007-09-17 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
But. The kind of caring of a special relationship with someone feels a lot different from the caring you get from friends and family. :\ I know people who have really loving friends and family, but they got depressed enough to consider offing themselves and the only thing that stopped them trying was the caring they got from the people they were in a relationship with. The companionship has a totally different feel to it.

I KNOW that nothing lasts forever, I know that a relationship for companionship won't last forever even if at some point everything's going so well that it seems it will. It's not that I think what you're saying is particularly harsh or shallow. I just think that the act of sex shouldn't be an integral part of what makes up a relationship, and if you're involved with someone for sex, then that's not a relationship, that's just fuckbuddies or a friendship with benefits.

[identity profile] la-vamp.livejournal.com 2007-09-17 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
That's fine if you feel that way, but I stand by what I believe. I won't date anyone that's unattractive. I don't care if other people do. It's fine with me. I'm not going to change. Sorry.