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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-27 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2307 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you been to a gaming store where someone does what you're saying is "good" for the customer? It's uncomfortable as hell.

I went into a store to see if I could snag some used 4e books, not because I was all YAY 4E IS THE BEST AND I CAN'T WAIT TO RUN A GAME but because a friend of mine was GMing a game and HE decided to do 4e. Rather than argue with him, because he was just starting out and wanted an easier system to do it with, I went along with the 4e with the idea in my mind that I'd beg for Pathfinder later on.

I'm wandering around the (admittedly tiny) shelf of a gaming store I found through a Google search (I'd just moved recently so I didn't know anything in the area). The older gentleman running the store saw me doing this and came over to ask if I needed help. I told him I was hoping to find some used 4e books.

And fast forward to a half hour later of me uncomfortably acting like he's making the most amazing observations and criticisms about how 4e is shit (yeah, it is in a lot of ways) and how if I'm new I should try Pathfinder (I'm not new, thanks, and I told you so several times, but you're too busy raging about 4e), and giving me a run-down of how shitty and corporate the company's gotten since TSR was bought out (yeah, whatever).

I know 4e is a shit system, but even if I WAS a new player, I don't need to hear about it if that's what I -want to buy-. If I came in there saying "I'm not sure what I want", by all means, campaign away (but without all the rage and curse words, thanks). But if I come in there knowing what I want, point me in the direction and keep your opinions to yourself. I'm sorry, but if I walk into a store and tell the shopkeep that I really want oranges, and they proceed to rant at me about how awful orange growers are and that I should buy bananas because they're much better, I'm going to leave and find a place that'll let me buy my oranges without getting in my face.

As far as the game is concerned, I feel like 4e, while being "D&D Lite", is a great way to platform people into "real" D&D (such as Pathfinder or possibly wherever they're going with 5e). It teaches the basics and gets people used to playing while everything they can do is on pre-printed, easy to use cards that don't send people rummaging through their stack of books to figure out what spell to cast next. That's what purpose it's serving in the game I'm in now, where nearly everyone is brand spanking new to gaming and still get confused over simple things, but once we've been playing this for a year and a half and everyone's getting used to what shape of die is what side, THEN we can introduce fun, more in-depth systems.

And honestly, if the OP's friend is talking to a new player and telling them to BUY Pathfinder core books, guh.

And I do agree it's a little strange that the OP is getting hurt about him talking to customers about how much 4e sucks, but it might have something to do with the fact that they start off talking about how he says that to THEM, and then tosses in the customers. It might be a case of "he complains to me and belittles my choices constantly and now he's talking to a customer with the same arguments and it brings back those hurt feelings tangentially in me". I dunno, I can't really get behind that one, it's kinda weird. Sorry, OP.