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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-27 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2307 ]


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Re: Sexuality Question Time!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
See, but I'm not "choosing" to identify as a man. I am a man. I couldn't choose to be a woman any more than you could choose to be a gender you're not.

And I feel like the very fact that trans people exist (and there are many more than a "handful" of us) proves that it's not our bodies that define our gender. But maybe it's just because I'm trans that I really can't understand seeing your body as being completely vital to your gender identity. Like... if you suddenly woke up with a different body, but still had exactly the same mind, do you really think that would suddenly make you a different gender? idgi

If you think this is something I'm "choosing", and think that our bodies define our gender, then you're not really respecting me as a trans person. Because if you think that, I feel like you're just humoring me when what you actually think is that I'm wrong about my own gender. And I am sick of people who think they know better than I do what my gender is.