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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-04 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2314 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2314 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-05-04 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
YES, THIS. it's one thing if the rejected character outright ignores the "no" and won't leave her alone, but i see that more in terrible Rom Coms than i've seen in shows spanning several seasons. i've experienced BOTH in real life. a guy i rejected continued to nag and push and be creepy and i ended up cutting off all ties with him. another guy i rejected respected the "no" and we continued being friends and months later we ended up getting together (and we're married now, so... i think it worked out okay)
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[personal profile] silverr 2013-05-04 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
fwiw (though I assume your YES THIS was to the anon you replied to), I've experienced both the situations you describe (and that's what I was clumsily trying to say in my previous comment: when the chaser backs off and acts like a reasonable person, sometimes you change your mind about them. But you usually don't about those who don't respect the initial "Not interested".)