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fandomsecrets2013-05-06 06:40 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2316 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Band of Brothers]
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[Princess Princess]
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[Once Upon a Time]
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[Doctor Who]
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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]
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[Common Law]
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[James May's Man Lab]
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[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]
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[Mad Men]
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[Lost Girl]
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[Twilight]
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[Monsters Inc]
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[Archer]
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[Super Junior / Infinite]
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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
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Re: TL:DR
(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 07:36 am (UTC)(link)Well yeah. It doesn't have to be one or the other though, 'it is' or 'it isn't,' it can be 'it is most of the time, but not always'.
I wish it wasn't the case, but I honstly havn't seen enough cases of relationships staying happy without sex. Once a relarionship becomes sexual, there doesn't seem to be a way for it to continue to function without sex. I don't like it, but it just seems to be the way of things.
Obviously if two people are in a relationship and having sex and both are into it and then one suddenly loses interest the relationship probably won't work, but that wasn't really what I meant.
I he problem isn't my girlfriends for wanting sex, the problem is mine for not wanting sex.
Since it sounds like this is something new for you rather than how you've always been it technically might be 'your problem' (medically) and possibly something to get checked out, but in general I'd say the problem isn't either of you or the fact that you do/don't want sex, but that you're obviously not compatible. Both wanting sex and not wanting sex are perfectly fine but it's going to be difficult to be in a relationship with someone who isn't on the same page.