[ SECRET POST #2321 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2321 ⌋

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Comments

Re: It's totally legal, just can't do the marriage part.

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt
honestly I've never had sex and I have an extremely low libido, and a little bit of alone time is enough to take care of it, so it's a weird topic to broach either way? I want the security and love of the relationship but not necessarily the sex I suppose.

Re: It's totally legal, just can't do the marriage part.

[chardmonster]

Okay, so... you'd not only need to find a polyamorous couple that wants to add a live-in third who'll take care of their children, but they also need to not want to have sex with you.

I guess what I'm saying is that before seriously seeking out this kind of relationship (which you can do, I'm sure there's websites with couples looking) you might want to get out into the scene a bit?

The thing that worries me is adding kids to the mix. You want a position where you'd be an important part of their life. From my understanding three person relationships can be really tricky to begin with, let alone with little growing people observing.

Re: It's totally legal, just can't do the marriage part.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not opposed to sex, I just don't have much of a libido... I was kinda thinking that might help me out in this situation, honestly!

Re: It's totally legal, just can't do the marriage part.

[chardmonster]

But you want them to love you and think of you as a part of the relationship--sex is an important part of the relationship for many people.

This is going to sound like I'm making fun of you, but please hear me out: have you considered becoming a live-in nanny?

Re: It's totally legal, just can't do the marriage part.

[(Anonymous)]

I am a nanny actually. I'm not an actual part of the family, and I don't think of the family I work for in this way, either.

Re: It's totally legal, just can't do the marriage part.

[(Anonymous)]

da

Maybe switch employers where you will be considered more a part of the family? If your bosses are treating you like "the help" or part of the furniture, it might be time to bail.