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⌈ Secret Post #2329 ⌋

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TMI - masturbation & sex

[(Anonymous)]

Question for the ladies (yes, I am referencing yesterday's secret): do any of you masturbate by pressing your thighs together rather than with your hands? And, if so, can you do it with your hands? Did you learn to? And if you don't, can a partner get you off? Can vibrator? Because I only do it with my thighs, not for want of trying the other way. But now I'm getting more sexually active I'm kind of realising it's a bit awkward when it just doesn't work when a guy tries to finger me or go down on me - and I'm inexperienced, so don't know if that's because I'm just not attracted to the guy, or that I'm secretly asexual, or whether I've just broken myself for sex by masturbating the wrong way :/

TL;DR: Women: masturbating with your thighs, do you do it. If so, thoughts?

Re: TMI - masturbation & sex

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the same as you, I can only get off by pressing my thighs together. I'm not even sure that I can find my clit with my hands/fingers. Technically, I know where it's suppose to be but I never feel anything when I touch myself there. Since I haven't had sex, I don't know I'd respond to other people touching me, but probably the same.

Re: TMI - masturbation & sex

[(Anonymous)]

TMI WARNING!


I use my fingers or a vibrator for clit stimulation (can't orgasm otherwise. even penetration doesn't do the deed, nice as it feels). I can't by pressing my thighs together-- and believe me, I've tried. I mean, it does feel good, but it won't push me over the edge, y'know?

When I was younger I used to press my thighs together and just press down on my clit hard rather than flick it back and forth/circle it or whatever. The older I got the more friction I needed, and can no longer get off that way.

Maybe you could try buying one of those rubber thingies with the ridges that you put on your finger. I have one (it came with a gift set an ex bought me) and it's really lovely. I sometimes go through periods (like right before I start menstruating) where I masturbate a lot and as a consequence I lose a lot of sensitivity in my clit for a few days. The little rubber thingy always helps.

Or a powerful vibrator (and it NEEDS to be powerful). Depends on my mood.

Re: TMI - masturbation & sex

[lynx]

I'm sorry for asking before collaborating with anything useful, but it's the opposite way for me. How does one masturbate using the thigs? As I've gotten older, I've needed more and more contact to feel anything, but I do like to experiment.

Anyway! Let me think... I think it's really useful if you explore your clit and surrounding areas with your fingers, and even a hand mirror if you are not grossed out by your own genitalia. (For example, I like how vulvas look, they're aesthetic to me, but I've known lots of women who find them distateful. We'll not get into debates on that, just throwing the fact in). Try caressing not the tip of the clit, but the side of it, kind of in a diagonal way, varying the pressure.

Oh! Here, some female nursing students from a Chilean university did an educational video showing masturbation techniques on a medical doll: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=8BOJWa8takY - The technical names are in Spanish, but you'll get the gist of it since it's pretty much a "show, don't tell" deal.

Hope it serves! <3