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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-23 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2333 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2333 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 019 secrets from Secret Submission Post #333.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: QUESTION ABOUT SUICIDAL PEOPLE (how to help?)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-24 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
Your mother sounds like a horrible, manipulative, vindictive excuse for a human being, and yes she does ned help. Is there an adult in your lives who can get her committed? Because her saying those kinds of things off the cuff IS NOT OK.

Re: QUESTION ABOUT SUICIDAL PEOPLE (how to help?)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-24 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I'm kind of laughing, because as far as manipulation on her part goes it doesn't really work. It's gotten to the point where she's kind of 'the boy who cried suicide.' I've actually been a legal adult for a long time, I'm just one of those people who tends to gravitate towards the internet because making things like eye contact and phone calls are anxiety-inducing and I have to work up to them. Pretty much all our relatives are either in worse mental shape than she or I am, or live too far away to help, or don't care to help, or some combination of the above. My mother is enrolled in an outpatient rehab clinic that her insurance pays for, and I make sure she gets to her appointments. Getting her enrolled in the program was one of those things I worked up to, but it's a 'lead a horse to water' situation. Her case-worker knows she threatens suicide so people will treat her with kid gloves and is trying to get her medicated and in therapy, but it's slow going. Mom's self-aware enough to realize that it's one of the reasons lots of her old friends don't talk to her much anymore, and she is trying to change her coping mechanisms. I know from dealing with my father, who was a danger to more than other peoples' patience and himself, that having someone committed is not an easy thing. If the outpatient clinic doesn't work out, she may end up enrolling in inpatient, which is basically her committing herself.