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fandomsecrets2013-05-26 03:47 pm
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Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)Second, at the end of the day you don't have to get it you just have to not be an ass about it. Which you're kind of failing at doing, to be honest here. This whole post has a really obnoxious tone to it, which might not be on purpose because tone on the internet etc.
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)Just trying to be open and understanding here!
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)This person should be comended for asking the questions and at least looking for some sort of understanding but what they posted here is possibly the least open minded and most jerky way of phrasing. They're being an ass about it.
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)I don't think so. This is exactly the way I felt about the whole transgender and gender vs. sex issue myself before I roomed with a trans man in college. He was really helpful in explaining things to me. Newsflash, but sometimes there are things that just need to be SAID without all that bullshit PCness and sugarcoating. The OP was blunt about it. Nothing wrong with that.
You also have to consider the fact that this is the Internet and tone doesn't exactly translate well. I can't count the number of times I've sounded like a complete asshole when in my head I'd been nothing but sincere.
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)That right there ought to tell you something...
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)I tend to sound rather sharp when I write, but in real life I'm probably one the sweetest people you'll ever meet. Tone simply does not translate well online.
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)Is this another PC thing like Asperger's where some people try to play it up like it's a blessing/superpower instead of a mental disorder, and that everyone who thinks otherwise deserves to die or whatever?
Really? That's just tone, not content? Is that merely "blunt but sincere" or doesn't it tell you that the OP wants to appear sincere in their quest for understanding but deep down basically believes that they're right?
Re: Transgenderism or whatever.
(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 03:08 am (UTC)(link)Whether the OP was intending to be sincere or not doesn't really change the fact that what they said was pretty offensive, and people have a right to be offended by it.