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Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 01:26 am (UTC)(link)Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 02:29 am (UTC)(link)The way people look, act, dress, speak, and generally express themselves all have a significant affect on whether another person will find them attractive or not, even if that person is of the sex/gender presentation that the other person is generally attracted to. This is why most people who have a physical sexual attraction to people aren't attracted to every single person of that sex - there are many, many other factors that go into it.
Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 04:26 am (UTC)(link)Basically I just feel no sexual attraction towards transmen, and I know quite a few. There's like a block in my head, or a voice, rather, that insists that transmen are not...male? Am I word vomiting here? I totally am, aren't I?
Like I said, sorry. I'm terrible with words. Just. To a lot of cismen and ciswomen, there's a very clear distinction between cis* and trans*-- in regards to their sex, anyway-- and it sometimes makes it hard, if not entirely impossible, to "accept" (sexually or romantically, I guess) a trans man/woman as you would a cis man/woman. Or something.
I'm shutting up now because I'm pretty sure I just messed up my whole point. And was probably being offensive as hell.
I obviously don't know how to use words.
Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-05-27 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)My problem with dating one is that to me at least sex is a huge part of a relationship, and from what I understand many trans men do not have bottom surgery, and even if they do, it's often not the best of results.
I simply do not see that sex life working out, to put it bluntly.