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[Saturday Night Live]

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[Homestuck]

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[The Dark Knight trilogy]

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[Star Trek]

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[Daily Show with Jon Stewart & Colbert Report with Stephen Colbert]

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[Neil Gaiman/Amanda Palmer]

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[Late Night Talk Shows]

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[Fruits Basket]

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[Defiance]

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[Phoenix Legend]

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[Kim Possible]

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[Rupert Graves]

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[Hashirama, from Naruto]

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[XXXholic]

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In your experience, what is the, uh, rhythm of a dating period? because I'm seeing this guy and I really like him, but having never dated before (at 21, even u_u) I have no idea what it is that i'm supposed to expect. We've hung out in a group, went to a couple of dates in the last month, but I'm scared of coming off as pushy; i really don't want to mess this up!

Obviously the way it goes is different from everyone, but having a frame of reference would be good, i think.

if you never get pushy at all, this could go on for years (or at least much longer than you're willing to wait) or even end up with him finding someone else [keep in mind this is just my personal experience]. if you're getting definite vibes after a couple of dates, have an honest talk with him about what you're looking for. if it still seems a little iffy, you may want to give it some more time.

There's not really a set "standard" for how one dates. Just be open and honest with him, let him know that you're really into him and you want to know how he feels about making it official/getting a little more serious/whatever. As far as I've seen, plenty of guys actually really like it when the girl is forward about what she wants. (At the same time, actually being forward serves as a good barometer: guys who have a problem with it tend to have some sexist views in general.)

I don't really have any frame of reference to give you, though - my partner and I met online and after becoming really good friends, I caved and admitted that I was in love. Worked out pretty well for the both of us, but I doubt either of us are shining examples to go by, in this case.

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