[ SECRET POST #2340 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2340 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[DJ Qualls/Vanessa Lengies]


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[Resident Evil Revelations]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Alice in Wonderland - Johnny Depp]


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Comments

Re: Homophobic mom? Not sure what to do/need to rant

[(Anonymous)]

If you're in a position to cut off contact with her, then send her an ultimatum that she needs to learn to respect your sexuality or else you'll have nothing to do with her. Her not actually being a bad person doesn't give her a free pass to be an ass to you about your sexuality.

I could, I guess (I don't live with her) but I really don't want to. Aside from this issue, she's always been this awesome mom who was always there for me and supporting me. I think that's what makes this so hard and so frustrating.

If you're not, then I think the most you can really do is try to educate her, little by little, as to why her attitude is hurtful, but only if you're really willing to deal with that headache. She sounds rather apathetic towards the whole issue in general, and in denial about your sexuality. It's likely that she hopes that if she doesn't "praise" you for your interest in girls, that you will "give up" and just get a boyfriend and get married and settle down and give her grandkids.

I think that's what I'm going to try to do. She's already a lot better now than she was a couple years ago so hopefully with time she'll get better. She's already been told in no uncertain terms that even if I ultimately end up with a guy, settling down and giving her grandkids is something that will not happen EVER so hopefully she doesn't still think that.

Anyway, thanks!