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fandomsecrets2013-05-30 06:47 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2340 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2340 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[DJ Qualls/Vanessa Lengies]
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[Resident Evil Revelations]
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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 016 secrets from Secret Submission Post #334.
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Re: Homophobic mom? Not sure what to do/need to rant
(Anonymous) 2013-05-31 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)Not what I said. Trying to force another person to act, think, do, say, or believe in the fashion you think they should is the definition of domestic violence according to the guy who teaches the domestic violence class at our local college.
From what OP wrote in her original post, she has a confrontational relationship with her parent over certain issues. From what the OP describes, she has things she wants her mother to do (accept her self-definition of her sexuality, stop eating at certain places, etc) and she is angry/hurt that her mother continues to act in the fashion mom does.
OP does not describe her mother as trying to change her actions or behaviors though. Her mother may not be saying what OP wants to hear but she's not trying to make her daughter something else or force her to change her beliefs. The daughter simply isn't getting the validation she wants from her mother. It's not optimal but it's not abuse either.