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⌈ Secret Post #2341 ⌋

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[David Mitchell]

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[Carry On]

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[Jay and Silent Bob]

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[Simcity Societies]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Noel Fielding]

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[Once Upon a Time]

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[Doraemon]

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[Uninhabited Planet SURVIVE]

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12. [SPOILERS for Star Trek: Into Darkness]

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13. [SPOILERS for Arrow]

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14. [SPOILERS for Naruto]

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15. [WARNING for pedohpilia]

[Neon Genesis Evangelion]

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No, you don't stop loving them. As Reese Watson said in an episode of Designing Women, "Julia Sugarbaker, you just keep all the memories and pictures of Hayden McIlroy that you want to because, quite frankly, I don't think I'd want to be with a woman who stopped loving her husband just because he died."

But love is one of those things where loving one person doesn't mean that you can't love another. It isn't a commodity that gets used up and disappears. This is why parents are able to love more than one child, for example, or why people can deeply love more than one friend.

I definitely think you can *choose* not to fall in love again, and if my husband were to die, I don't know if I would choose to build a relationship with someone else. But I don't think it would be impossible or morally wrong for me to do so just because I loved him first and still.

nayrt, but i just wanted to say that this is a really good comment, and a really insightful way to look at this issue both personally and in the context of the book, and many others

also i fucking love designing women and i had totally forgot about that line

I love Designing Women hard. Julia Sugarbaker is my role model. LOL

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