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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-05 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2346 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2346 ⌋

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Re: Uuuugh.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-06 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
I got married for the things like health insurance, joint taxes, etc. If we could have done those things without getting married, we would have.

I hate weddings. Planning mine was a total nightmare and ultimately I was going to end up with my mom's dream wedding instead of something my husband or I could tolerate. Our work situation meant we had to get married immediately or his company was going to move him really far away from me, so we had a courthouse marriage and planned to have a regular wedding later. But it was such a nightmare and everyone figured that it didn't matter if they came or not because we were already married, so we finally just cancelled. I'm relieved to have escaped the nightmare that it had all become, but still a little bitter about not getting my dream wedding. My dream wedding isn't anything expensive or lavish and we could have done the whole thing for less than $1000. It was meeting family demands that was making it unbearably stressful and ridiculously expensive.

Re: Uuuugh.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-06 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh. When you hit somewhere in a five-year interval have a vow renewal. You'll probably find people more receptive that way.

Re: Uuuugh.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-06 03:42 pm (UTC)(link)
We passed five last year but couldn't do it because of work. Maybe we'll get lucky for our ten year anniversary.