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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-05 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2346 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2346 ⌋

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Re: Uuuugh.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-06 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
different anon

"Part of being an adult is also sometimes shutting up and going along with things because you really love other people."

Sure, there's a time and place for that, but YOUR wedding shouldn't have to be one of them. If you honestly don't care either way and doing it in a way that makes your family happy would make YOU happy, then great, but you shouldn't feel obligated.
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Re: Uuuugh.

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-06-06 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, there's a time and place for that, but YOUR wedding shouldn't have to be one of them.

See, this is an issue. We're still building up the wedding to be some kind of hugely important event. As if it would somehow be devastating to not have precisely the wedding I want. It's not like I'm an atheist being forced to genuflect.

Weddings are all about obligation. That is why they exist in the first place. Hell, that's why marriage exists. And I'm going to gripe about it. But a wedding wouldn't exactly ruin my life, here. I'm sorry my annoyance and dread of wearing a fancy dress and getting pictures taken got misconstrued as something much worse.

I stand by my statements that the wedding industry sucks, though.
Edited 2013-06-06 20:41 (UTC)