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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-11 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2352 ]


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trying to get some ideas, help an anon out?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-12 01:19 am (UTC)(link)

In a rush so tl;dr
fandom kink meme
femdom

I, uh, what do YOU think of when you hear the word femdom? scenario wise? I'm drawing blanks, but I don't think they meant bdsm




Re: trying to get some ideas, help an anon out?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-12 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
I think bdsm with a woman in charge? If not that, I have no clue.

Re: trying to get some ideas, help an anon out?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-12 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm not entirely sure how you can have femdom without some BDSM elements. It can go in any number of directions, but my initial thoughts involve a bit of bondage (even predicament bondage), maybe some service-submission, sensation play, orgasm denial... and the rest depends on the characters involved.

Re: trying to get some ideas, help an anon out?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-12 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
Female dominance - the woman's in charge. It's more often in terms of BDSM (female Domme/male sub), but I'm assuming it could be used in any context where the woman is the one calling the shots. You can have a woman on top without it being part of a D/s scene.

Re: trying to get some ideas, help an anon out?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-12 09:01 am (UTC)(link)
Basically what it says, female dominance over men, behaving in ways we usually consider male behavior, having some kind of power and wielding it well. In a sexual context, coming on to a man and controlling the speed and direction of the interaction, demanding pleasure without offering reciprocation, riding cowgirl on top, maybe using a strap-on on the man, staying partially or entirely clothed while her male partner is entirely naked, making him perform for her, putting him in a vulnerable position, things like that. Outside of sex, just a woman being unapologetically aggressive and in control and comfortable with that, not in an over-the-top way and not in the usual acceptably feminine way, just the plain, direct way confident and masculine men do all the time, that we take for granted. Any D/s kinkiness is optional, the primary appeal of femdom is just a naturally powerful woman.

Also, in my mind, a huge component is a strong man being turned on and receptive to the dominant woman, not threatened by her or inherently weak (in contrast to a dominant man's quarry being resistant to him and needing to be conquered usually being the kink in such situations). Or maybe that's just what I personally find hot.

Re: trying to get some ideas, help an anon out?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-12 11:30 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
Thanks!

Yeah the prompt is really brief, literally the word femdom and I've been wracking my brain for what that could mean 'cause I don't want to give them a half assed product.

That does sound hot though yes