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fandomsecrets2013-06-11 06:57 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-06-11 06:57 pm
[ SECRET POST #2352 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2352 ⌋
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 091 secrets from Secret Submission Post #336.
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Living with parents
My judgment doesn't equal to being vocal to someone about their 'leeching about the house' because it's not my problem. If their parents want to sink money into someone who is throwing it away, that's their choice and no one else's. It's their money after all.
My judgment is about as affective as me thinking that people who wear crocs have no taste. It's never going to reach those people, so what does it matter if I'm judgmental about it?
My parents sunk a lot of money into my brother's wedding that I don't think they should have, because someone who's just filed for bankruptcy should take a step back and consider whether they really need to throw a lavish wedding for two hundred people.
I judged my brother for asking for it, and my parents for giving it, but I didn't say a damn thing out loud, because it wasn't my money to decide where it got spent.
And honestly, no it probably shouldn't bother me when it really doesn't affect me in any way if some stranger (or a hundred strangers) are taking advantage of their parents - though like I said, in a way I blame the parents for enabling as much as I blame the leechers for leeching - but it still kind of does bother me.
Not in any sort of way that I stay up at night thinking about other peoples' lives, but enough to prompt me to comment on it on the internet at least.
Re: Living with parents
From my position, I'd think it's a waste of time to think about other people's life in which you're not directly involved?
I don't blame you or anything. I just wondered why you openly wrote you'd judge, despite knowing it's none of your business.
And FYI, I bought a couple of fake crocs at a beach shop because they are convenient when taking a spontaneous walk on the beach and you don't want to get dirty shoes. Talk to my Chanel bag and judge me ;D
Re: Living with parents
I don't blame you or anything. I just wondered why you openly wrote you'd judge, despite knowing it's none of your business.
Huh, I don't really know, to be honest. Sometimes, "Oh my god, is he/she wearing that... really?!" or "I can't believe they said something so stupid..." just sort of pops into my head.
I don't usually set out to judge someone or something, it just sort of... happens. Could I probably stop if I tried really hard? Most likely, yes. But I don't tend to say any of those stupid and pointless things out loud, so to me, it's not the biggest deal in the world to merely be thinking them.
I'm weird I guess? XD