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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-11 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2352 ]


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Re: Living with parents

[personal profile] mondat 2013-06-12 09:18 am (UTC)(link)
You judge them on what they wear, how they talk, where they work, what they're doing. This may not be JUDGY JUDGEMENTAL JUDGEMENTS, but you look at people, and you make inferences and come to conclusions.

I might have looked at the clothes of my classmates when I was 14 years old, but now? I don't. I judge people mostly by their actions towards me, not by their clothes or their work because honestly, talking about work bores me. Why should I care about other people's work? I work to live and don't live to work. When I tell people that I live in Japan one of the first questions is always about my work - despite Japan being a country with a beautiful culture and places to travel. I just don't get it.

I had several precious experiences with different people and I'm judged myself by Japanese people almost every day ("Foreigners cannot speak Japanese") - it made me change my perspectives.

But hey, if you like to watch other people's clothes etc., go on - but don't think everbody thinks the same way as you do.

but to get annoyed because of a comment about not mooching off your parents?
Do I have to be annoyed for stating my opinion and asking a normal question? Is it because I didn't use any smileys?