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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-13 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2354 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2354 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Kodomo no Jikan]


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[figure skating/Brian Joubert]


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[Stargate: Atlantis/ Sesame Street]


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[K project]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Married...With Children]


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[Homestuck]


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[One Piece]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Pokémon Black & White]


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[Phantom of the Opera 2004]


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[Iron Man 3]


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[Neverwinter Nights 2]


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[Almost Human/Total Recall 2077]


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[Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer]


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[Fire Emblem: Awakening]


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[A Bag of Hammers]


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[Without a Trace]


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[Big Bang Theory]


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[The Three Investigators]


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[Team Fortress 2]


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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 043 secrets from Secret Submission Post #336.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-13 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
It's totally valid for you to be irritated that your family decided to make your birthday all about someone else. That's just a failure of basic consideration, and I'm glad you found something to make the day not entirely shitty.

Happy Birthday, OP.
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[personal profile] kanginese 2013-06-13 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with this tbh

(Anonymous) 2013-06-13 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup. They couldn't even take a five minute break to like, raise a glass of orange juice and congratulate OP? Who would it hurt if the other guests knew it was OPs birthday? Just being acknowledged on your birthday can be pretty nice all in itself.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-13 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep. They could have acknowledged you at least once. Adult birthdays still matter, even if there's not as much of a song and dance as for kids. My family always has dinners if someone in the family has a birthday. (Well, they didn't for me for years, but I was the black sheep, so that's what that says about ignoring my birthday.)

My birthday is the same as my newborn, so I fully expect no one to remember mine once he's older! I personally don't mind though, but that's just me.
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[personal profile] shinyhappypanic 2013-06-14 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
definitely a +1 from me over here. they could have at least mentioned you, and if they intentionally didn't they're assholes. happy birthday OP! you deserve at least a nod, whether 35 or 14 or 78 years old.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed.

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(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
Being composed and gracious about the issue in public is the "adult" thing to do, which it sounds like OP was.

Being hurt by feeling brushed aside and unacknowledged just because it's convenient for your family to pack things onto the same day is perfectly normal and perfectly human at any age.

I'm glad One Piece made you feel better, OP. Late happy birthday!

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
Not even mentioning to anyone else that it was your birthday is rude as hell of them. If they were going to ignore you like that, they shouldn't have scheduled the party on your birthday.
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[personal profile] blunderbuss 2013-06-14 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
What? No! Once you're an adult you're no longer allowed to have feelings or desire consideration from others! Only whiny children want that!