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fandomsecrets2013-06-13 06:47 pm
[ SECRET POST #2354 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2354 ⌋
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Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 12:52 am (UTC)(link)A small, fictional child. Seriously -- I'm assuming the OP isn't diddling real children, so why the hate?
OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 12:57 am (UTC)(link)If I need to confirm, no, I'm not, wtf? :|
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 12:58 am (UTC)(link)A lot of that kind of material is used by abusers to groom actual children, so the "ablooabloo it's just fiction, stop hating on my creepiness" song and dance isn't bulletproof.
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 01:05 am (UTC)(link)OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 01:09 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 01:13 am (UTC)(link)Look, okay, I'm too tired for this game right now. I'll just say I can't help being suspicious of people who are super invested in defending fictional pedo wank fodder because it's technically ~free speech~ or whatever. I can't think of a non-horrible reason to.
(Also the Anarchist Cookbook is actually pretty much 100% bullshit, but that's another story)
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 01:42 am (UTC)(link)The thing is, it's not some "game." When you use a bad argument in the name of what is certainly a good cause (protecting children from rapists), that doesn't make it stop being a bad argument, but it will make people think they can use the same bad argument in other cases (like video games and violence, or something). It's not the drawing or the comics or whatever that are hurting children -- it's the child rapists. Going after the comics rather than the child rapists doesn't protect anyone. Unless you seriously think there are child molesters who give up on raping kids because they can't find enough lolicon to groom them with, I don't see the point of using a fundamentally bad argument to go on crusade here.
And don't try to insinuate that I'm somehow invested in child porn or something, because I don't even read this shit. It's just that your argument is bad, and it's bad in a way that has consequences.
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 01:57 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 03:17 am (UTC)(link)Reread the last paragraph of the comment you just replied to. Or possibly, read it for the first time.
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 03:19 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 04:02 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 04:33 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) - 2013-06-14 22:51 (UTC) - ExpandRe: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 11:42 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
Yes, there's a minority of lolicon fans who are not pedophiles. Said minority looks like the majority because they're the most loud, and the ones you'll likely see on internet forums. However, the whole product is created for a majority of readers who enjoy sexualizing children. Not 'fictional' children. CHILDREN in general.
What lolicon does, besides being used to groom victims, is to normalize the idea that children are sexual beings and will want relationships with grownups. Just a couple of weeks ago, I had to read the heartwrenching story of a japanese girl who explained that in Japan child molestation is practically down to an art, which explains why they produce so much borderline legal pornographic material that is completely aimed to pedophiles. That you, and the OP, and some other hundreds of lolicon fans would never touch a child in an inappropriate manner doesn't change the fact that this crap and the whole industry behind it allows for the idea that children, real children, can consent to sex.
Yes, the drawings don't hurt the children. But the reason why the drawings exist? It's because there's a huge public that is willing to buy the fantasy that children are sexual objects in order to justify their acts.
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 02:48 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,2054271,00.html
http://www.japantoday.com/category/kuchikomi/view/why-some-mothers-sell-their-children-for-dirty-deals
Now, regarding the fact that it's made for pedophiles, seriously? What other kind of people would like to see children in explicit sexual situations designated to arouse the viewer?
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 06:39 am (UTC)(link)She looked like a miniature hooker and she wasn't even old enough to have developed breasts yet. Sorry, but that's way grosser than any loli manga. Loli manga isn't real kids.
nayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 07:01 am (UTC)(link)speaking from the perspective of western fandom, i don't know about lolicon so much, but i've seen a lot of people who like shotacon often identifying with the object of sexual desire rather than just getting off to objectifying little kids
in a lot of cases it seems almost like a kind of... ageplay fantasy, where it taps into the feelings they had back when they were first discovering and exploring their sexuality and that sort of thing, but maintain a clear separation from anything involving real kids and are just as squicked as anyone else when it comes to seeing them objectified
*shrug*
i'm not saying shotacon and lolicon are good things or that they aren't harmful, but i do think there are quite a few factors that can tie into the enjoyment of that kind of material that don't necessarily mark someone as a child molestor
Re: nayrt
(Anonymous) - 2013-06-14 11:21 (UTC) - ExpandRe: nayrt
(Anonymous) - 2013-06-15 00:19 (UTC) - ExpandRe: nayrt
(Anonymous) - 2013-06-15 03:42 (UTC) - ExpandRe: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 04:54 am (UTC)(link)Equating lolicon and child porn does more harm that good, since it takes away attention of far more problematic stuff like child porn and child prostitution.
And please don't think that I'm defending lolicon. I hate it and understand why I can be harmful, but it's naive to insist than fictions equals reality and should be deal with it in the same way.
If anything, that kind of arguments also do more harm than anything else, since changing "lolicon" with "violent movies" or something else shows why equating fiction and reality is not only a bad argument, but also a good way to not being taken seriously.
Re: OP
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 11:21 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 02:07 am (UTC)(link)Mind, this is just an hypothesis, and until there's a good scientific study about this will never know for sure, but there is also the possibility that consuming lolicon media subconsciously normalizes the idea of sexualizing children and also might make pedophiles lapse into actual abuse by, again, subconsciously reassuring them that their desires are a-okay.
Otherwise, yeah, child rapists bad, fiction okay, just by goodness don't show it to children/young teens/impressionable people/your parents/etc.
/I don't like lolicon disclaimer D:
Re: OP
(Anonymous) 2013-06-14 03:40 am (UTC)(link)On the other hand, if you want to talk about 'normalizing', that opens up a whole universe of 'bad shit that's okay in fiction' to similar scrutiny. No more violence in movies and video games, for a start, don't you know that's why we're raising more violent kids these days?
(Echo disclaimer.)