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⌈ Secret Post #2355 ⌋

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36. [WARNING for rape]

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I think a lot of actors, especially in the geek circles, are more used to it. Look at James Doohan and his story about the young, suicidal fan that he only saw at conventions, who eventually became an engineer and overcame her depression thanks to him.

I think y'all are kinda being a douche. I mean, hell, did OP TELL McAvoy this at all? No, they said it here, in a fandom space. Fandom does a lot of things that freak actors out, and saying, "When I was in a dark place, this person was the light that I focused on to guide me out" is not one of them. OP isn't putting anything on McAvoy personally. Y'all really need to show a little empathy. Sheesh.

OP, you are not pathetic. And your coping mechanism isn't pathetic either. Whatever gets you through the day when your days are bad, whatever you think of to give you strength when you need to put one foot in front of the other, it isn't stupid. At all. To people on the outside, anything can look stupid, from celebrities to cartoon owls to therapy. They are not where you are. Even if they also have depression, they are still not where you are. What is important to you is important for exactly that reason, and it's fantastically brave that you've pulled yourself this much further, just one that one strange light. Good for you, and may your days get even better.

I don't think OP is pathetic at all, I think meaning is where we find it. I mentioned James Doohan in another comment - a relationship with a celebrity isn't the same as dozens of young girls telling an actor he's such an amazing perfect person that he kept them from suicide. I added the line about telling the actors because while I was defending OP, that was a situation in which I could see anons criticisms as more valid. OP has already said they don't plan on telling McAvoy and I'm very sorry that I implied that.

The truth is, you don't always have to play the devil's advocate.

A large part of empathy is knowing when not to.

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