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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-15 03:44 pm

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Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
'Cause I don't, and it never really occurred to me that people did to the extent where you would even be able to keep a count like this. Like, I'll maybe get aroused by porn fic to the extent where I'm inspired to go rub off every so often, but even those times it's much more of a distraction than anything else to keep thinking about the people involved. If it's a specific act that I've found arousing, then I might think about that act for a while, but by the time I get to orgasming, I'm back to not really thinking of anything beyond "this feels great."

Idk, maybe I'm just weird, but I'd have a big fat zero up on everyone if I tallied up a count, lol.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm with you on this one. But then I'm also asexual so wtf do I know about what "normal" people do.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Weirdly enough, I find I have a lot in common with asexuals when it comes to things like this, yet I don't think of myself as asexual. What do I know, sexuality is confusing. :)
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Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

[personal profile] queerwolf 2013-06-15 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
While I don't keep count like OP does, I definitely think of specific people while jerking off. Mostly my OTP in different situations, but every so often me with one or both *shrugs* I didn't think it was that unusual.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, you're probably right. The more I learn about other people's sexual habits, the more I discover that I'm a bit of an oddball, haha.
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Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

[personal profile] queerwolf 2013-06-15 09:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey I'm a little odd too cause I'm probably supposed to think of whoever I'm dating at any given time but I never do ;)

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-16 03:40 pm (UTC)(link)
na

Eh, I guess that's not so odd as well.
I was fantasizing like whoa about my now-girlfriend. When I got together with her this turned back into "thought of OTP with or without me involved". Doesn't mean I don't love my girlfriend or don't find her attractive anymore.

Actually, I'd find it a bit creepy if my gf told me she would think of me every time she rubs off. I'd feel like her fetish *g*

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
If I'm thinking about anything, it's usually my OTP going at it, but it's more like, "I'm getting off, I may as well think of something hot."

But then, I might be weird, too. /shrug

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, idk, maybe I'm just too scatterbrained to concentrate on more than one thing at a time. ;)
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Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-06-15 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't, no. But I also sound different than you. I fap to the act of sex, or specific acts of sex, or the fantasy of it in any case. It does work with shipping, if I imagine two characters I like getting it on, but i don't fap to individual people.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Interesting! Sexuality is such a weird thing, I love how many shades of everything there are.
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Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-06-15 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
It's really interesting, but also confusing, especially if you're talking about compatibility and such.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
D/W I'm odd in that i rarely ever involve MYSELF in my fantasies.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-15 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
This person doesn't. I have fantasies I get off to, but I don't really imagine them as such. It's more like wording playing in my head--as if I'm reading it (but not so much visualizing it other than visualizing the word).

He (it's he--and he's faceless, just maybe a body and a dick or maybe a her but still faceless) grabs her, spins her (not me, her) around, and bends her over the couch, and fucks her (and I think about that or a scenario like that and get off to it).

It's also like I'm part of scene (part of him and her) but distant. I dunno how to describe it.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-16 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
I do, but usually not one specific person consistently all the way through. Multiple people will flit through my mind: real people, fictional people, often the abstract idea of people with certain characteristics... The real people might be folks I know and they might folks I've never met. I might think of a person or persons having sex with me, or I might think of people having sex with each other. Generally, if I let my mind wander away from people, it just ends up taking too long.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-16 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
Yea I'm the same way, but I am asexual too so maybe that's why. Now that I think about it, is does seem really weird to me to get off while thinking about a person.

Re: Do many people actually fap to thoughts of people?

(Anonymous) 2013-06-16 03:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I'm one of those people who can't get aroused by a character/person I don't "know".
So when I'm reading fic for example, it has to be about characters I know and like to get off to it.
When it's about characters I have no clue about, find unattractive personality-wise or just plain don't like it's like watching two dogs hump. I get the urge to chase them off my yard ;)

That's also the reason I could never have a one-night stand. If I don't know the person well enough, there's just zero sexual attraction, no matter how physically attractive the person might be.