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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-16 03:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2357 ]


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chardmonster: (Default)

Re: holy absolute fuck

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-06-17 02:27 am (UTC)(link)


That's pretty harsh, don't you think? Considering how little you know about the actual situation? Or anxiety in the first place, apparently?

Re: holy absolute fuck

(Anonymous) 2013-06-17 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
I know plenty about anxiety. I spent two years being a virtual shut-in because I was so afraid of everyone except three people.

You know what got me out of it? Getting help. And part of the reason I went out and got it is because one of those three people supported me and encouraged me to do so.

OP isn't supporting or encouraging their partner to do anything about his situation. They're encouraging him to continue having issues. It's never "moot" for a person to go to therapy -- unless it's in someone's interest for that person to stay out of it.
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: holy absolute fuck

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-06-17 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
And I'm sure as a person who suffers/suffered from anxiety you are well aware that all anxious people function exactly the same and have the same needs.

I'm sure there isn't a hierarchy of needs going on here either, where getting this guy to therapy might not help very much when his mother will immediately call and destroy what he's built up. Therapy ain't magic, and not everyone can even afford it.

But what do I know? Clearly this person venting on fandomsecrets is a horrible person. Ready the anonymous pitchforks.
Edited 2013-06-17 03:01 (UTC)

Re: holy absolute fuck

(Anonymous) 2013-06-17 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
How do you know they're not? Hell, they could even have made the entire thing up.
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: holy absolute fuck

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-06-17 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
I realize that, which is why I usually try to stay the fuck out of these things, especially when they just appear to be venting. They often have about as much credibility as people asking for donations on tumblr. Could be true, could be bullshit.

I'm just poking the angry anon who's diagnosing an entire situation from a fandomsecrets rant that by definition gives an incomplete picture of the situation.

Re: holy absolute fuck

(Anonymous) 2013-06-17 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, are you shit-all-over-everybody!anon? You must be awfully bored tonight.