ext_82219 ([identity profile] shahni.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-09-26 02:00 pm

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[identity profile] aishiteru.livejournal.com 2007-09-27 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not really sure, but probably. The scares been going on a couple years now and has made people go OMG AUTISM, so there's probably been a bit of OMG ASPERGER'S too. I'm not sure on that case.

I completely agree. For people who think they really, honestly have autism - they should absolutely go and get an evaluation, to try and make sure, again for the reason you stated. What I honestly, honestly meant was people who WANT to be autistic like that - people who think they MIGHT be and wish they really WERE - I've met people like that, and it's a little scary, to wish that kind of trouble on yourself, if you are actually healthy already.

.. that wouldn't surprise me entirely, but I don't think you'd statistically see that much larger a number - I think studies like that have actually been done, because I'm being strongly reminded of something similar, but I can't remember exactly what. And believe me, I know where you're coming from, and the point you're trying to make.

I just don't like people WISHING or WANTING to have disorders, in a serious way that they think will make them "special" or "interesting," or with the thinking "it'll fit my personality!" (which I'm differentiating from "I think I really have those symptoms" - the former, to me, has a certain "ooooh personality quiz!" feel to it, while the latter would have much more serious consideration.)

[identity profile] iamadoughnut.livejournal.com 2007-09-27 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
I know when I first came across Asperger's (a friend was diagnosed) I was very torn. I was angry that he had an answer and I didn't, and I was scared and yet still hopeful that maybe this would be something that would give me some answers. Because I'd spent most of my life wondering why I couldn't do what other people my age seemed to do fairly easily. So yes, at that point I "wanted" to have Asperger's so I could finally deal with my life.

If I had to make a decision now, obviously I would prefer not to be autistic... because it sucks, most of the time. But at the time it was between being autistic and being considered mentally ill without much hope of successful treatment. At least knowing how my mind works now I'm able to compensate more specifically for the areas in which I have deficits.

I don't think mine is a particularly special situation, either. I'm sure that, sometimes, it has something to do with attention-seeking, but I'm going to go out on a limb and say that it's actually a minority of people who are latching onto Asperger's or autism solely for that reason.

You said in your other comment that you weren't talking about specific cases, but I think this is a topic where you cannot ever make broad generalizations. Because it's a spectrum disorder, you will be faced with a wide variety of individuals, behaviors, and levels of functioning.