[ SECRET POST #2359 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2359 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: I am going to hell

[(Anonymous)]

It's what Chardmonster said. He thinks drinking and getting drunk is a good way to pass time. I'm more of the staying sober while having fun type. He has a separate grocery bill just for alcohol and I think alcohol is a once-per-month tops kind of thing. He joked about getting drunk every day of his vacation where his daughter's away visiting relatives... Our social lives are not compatible at all.

Re: I am going to hell

[(Anonymous)]

He's clearly a loser. What kind of drugs are you on that there aren't huge Red Alert sirens going off in your head right now OP?

Re: I am going to hell

[(Anonymous)]

THIS. It puts a whole different spin on OP's lament of "Why God why do you keep dangling (loser) guys like him in front of me?"

Re: I am going to hell

[(Anonymous)]

wtf

... separate grocery bill for alcohol
... getting drunk every day

uhhhhhh. i don't know this guy, but based solely on what you're saying here, these are making alarm bells go off in my mind.

Re: I am going to hell

[(Anonymous)]

Those are major red flags, OP. If it's not already an alcoholic (and quite frankly, if he considers getting drunk a worthwhile regular activity in itself it kinda sounds like he might be) he's definitely taking a brisk walk down that path.

Demote this down to casual workplace friendship. Don't see him outside of work, remain friendly and civil but greatly decrease the amount of time you spend with him while at work. And definitely do not under any circumstances drink with him in case you both do something you'll regret.

Re: I am going to hell

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not sure if he's serious about drinking so much or if it is all joke. He's Russian so he makes a lot of "Russians drink every day" and "this food will go down easier with a beer or two" kind of jokes. I definitely don't see him outside of work and I don't plan to. I rarely drink so the chance of something inappropriate happening is low. I will stop talking to him as much at work though. Thank you for all the advice. :)