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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-20 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2361 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2361 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hetalia]


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[Charles Coulson (and indirectly, Avengers)]


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[No. 6]


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[Leto Brothers]


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[Harry Potter]


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[Xiaolin Showdown/Xiaolin Chronicles]


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["Zombies Took My Daughter"]


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[Wolf's Rain]


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[The Croods]


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[Phineas and Ferb]


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[Ouran High School Host Club]


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[Hetalia]


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[The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug]


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[Starsky and Hutch]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Hannibal]


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[Zoo Tycoon]


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[Monty Python]


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[Hannibal]


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[Teen Wolf]















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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-21 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with others that it really depends on the history, is this something you could openly talk about with them? Have you talked with them about it before?

I don't think it's necessarily bad to start the friendship up again, but not in the way it used to be. If someone has been a shitty friend in the past, the friendship has to be different, you can't let them pull the same things they have before, and you have to be really clear about it.

I don't think it's bad to be acquaintances with someone who was once close too, sometimes you can like someone enough as a person to want to know what is going on with them, but you have to protect yourself from dealing with their shit on a regular basis.

Either way I'd try being honest about it, if the friendship is worth it then it can take the honesty.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-21 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
The problem is with honesty. Whenever discussing a bad habit, she would be on the defense. One time, I told her, I would like her to communicate with me more. She's said.

'Okay, I'll try but *insert reason why she couldn't*" I could buy that her parents were strict about text/phone bill. But, online talk was short or nonexistent. I know she liked being invisible b/c she didn't want to talk to anyone. Also, I could never hang out with her til late (ie past 7) since she had a curfew. (We're about a year apart) Not to mention, every single time, her parental drama would become a central topic of conversation.


[personal profile] byonicluna 2013-06-21 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like letting the friendship die for good is the best case here, then.